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??? ??????? or, Do You Know Jesus?

22 Apr

I’ve had several prior entries about how much I detest missionaries. Another thing that infuriates me has occurred about four out of the five times we’ve met Moroccans here in the States…one of their first questions is
"??? ???????"

When the answer is “no” – my husband is a bit lax on observing the 2nd pillar – they don’t stop there. They continue to push and pry, asking “When will we go to jemaa together?” I’ve met them, and told them I’m Catholic, and they try to convince me that converting would be in my husband’s best interests. These people know little more than our names, and they’re trying to interfere in both our marriage and our relationship with God.

And that’s where my annoyance with religion lies. If the missionaries were in Morocco simply to set a good example, that would be fine by me – but their goal (as much as they try to disguise it with “good works”) is to convert others to their own religion. The same with the Moroccan Muslims we’ve met here, they consider it their spiritual duty to bother my husband – even though he probably has a much higher moral standard than they do.

I’m going to have a t-shirt made that says:


???? ??? ???????
?????
???? ???

 

When One Has the Mean Reds

18 Apr

As you may have noticed (cough), I have a new template again. Why all the sporadic changes?

“Listen…you know those days when you get the mean reds?” –Holly.
“The mean reds? You mean like the blues?” –Fred (Paul).
“No… the blues are because you’re getting fat or because it’s been raining too long. You’re just sad, that’s all. The mean reds are horrible. Suddenly you’re afraid and you don’t know what you’re afraid of. Do you ever get that feeling?” –Holly.
“Sure.” –Fred (Paul).
“When I get it the only thing that does any good is to jump into a cab and go to Tiffany’s. Calms me down right away.” –Holly.

What I like to do is design something…usually modifying a template, but sometimes I paint, build things, modify my clothes…you get the idea. Anyway, I used a really fun set of Photoshop brushes for tweaking this template, that’s them you see over on the left and along the top…Henna Brushes! Normally, I would have done this as a warm palette, but I kind of like black and red – also the two main colors for my djellabas!

And voila, I feel better.

 
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????? ???

17 Apr

There were three women who helped me along with the Fulbright, offering advice, revisions, suggestions, and moral support. I came to look upon them as the very best examples for how I’d like to live my life – they’re all generous, kind, intelligent, and strong. One of these women is Maryam, as mentioned before, but the second is Dr. Andrea Kavanaugh of Virginia Tech. Yes, where the shooting was. Yes, Dr. Kavanaugh is an engineer. Yes, I was chewing my nails to stubs over the past two days, wondering if she was OK.

This afternoon, she replied to my frenzied “Please let me know you’re OK” email from the day of the shootings, and I can’t remember when I’ve been so relieved. I don’t know what else to say except to repeat the title of this post, ????? ???.

P.S. I swear, I’m putting the shadda, but the post doesn’t display it!

 
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Morrissey Is Coming To Town

30 Mar

It’s like Halloween, Christmas, and New Year’s Eve, all wrapped up into one shining package of yodeling self-pity and longing with a good dose of sarcasm and mockery. I’m so happy I could just burst.

Morrissey!!!

[audio:http://www.liosliath.com/blog/audio/Morrissey-MyLoveLife.mp3]

 
 

The belly rules the mind. ~ Spanish Proverb

28 Mar

Thank you all for your solidarity…I had two tamales and a chicken/cilantro taco with green salsa at my local taqueria (Xalisco), and I feel much better.

Bill, I also loooove Chinese/Japanese/Thai…I’m often at the Lac Viet Market, Tensuke Market, and innumerable Chinese places.

If it’s spicy/interesting, I’ll probably eat it. What I will NOT eat is goat, any kind of internal organ, beets, mashed potatoes, shebbekia (ok, I can eat one, then I’ve had enough), haggis, insects, grubs, blood, mutton, veal, poached eggs, or creamed onions.

Edit : No creamed corn on toast, either. Ugh. I think I’m going to be sick.

 
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